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Friday, August 12, 2011

My-ex's Lazy ass

So here's the deal. I want to move forward with my life. But I cant unless I'm willing to go to Jail. For how long can be anywhere from 6 mo to 3 yrs. I Paid my child support for 10 yrs to this woman while she was on section 8, foodstamps, among any other means of welfare she could get her hands on, all while working under a different social security number at a Salon (with her Cosmetology degree) So basically working at the Salon is free money. All this while she pays 30 bucks a month in rent. Ya sounds typical right? So anywhoo while this is going on she took me to court and my initial payment of 250 bucks turns into $750.00 upon walking out of there. With a female Judge of course. So I continued working for a few yrs before I had a realization that with our bills including child care me working just wasn't cutting it. The best thing for me to do would be to Stop working for awhile and take care of my kids to cut off some major expenses. Which worked! I was not to happy about being a stay at home daddy while my wife worked but I got used to it. So I back in February started my own business thinking I needed to start paying back my child support and who know's? Maybe this business might turn out to be big! Worth a shot! So I started this out with a good friend of about 6-7 yrs. Crazy enough right when I filed the paperwork to the state for "Our" business and thought well hell this might be a turning point in my life. My friend goes and confesses his love for my wife. So. There went that. But I'm still trying to make it work. Then I get this summons to court for not paying child support. And as I look into it it's saying that if I go to court in the state of which I reside I will have to most likely go get locked up for a period of 6 mo-3 yrs. for child support? How the fuck does that make any sense? How am I going to pay my child support then? *Sigh I love my state's Womanly Logic. So I couldn't go to court knowing that because well my wife just got promoted and well basically I'm her child care. She would have to go back to her mothers, transfer her job to another location and being that she would no longer be a manager making more money she would have to start all over at the bottom of the totem pole. So their goes that! Now I know I have to go to jail to get this burden off my back and I'm severely pissed off at my money hungry nag of an ex. -More later.

4 comments:

It's nice to hear that you started your own bussiness and that it is going good. Maybe with the profits you consult an attorney about laws and maybe finding a way out of this situation. Loved your story, followed.

I pity your poor foolish friend the most.

Man, they're Ex'd for a reason. I can't stand lazy girlfriends, just ditch them if they can't keep their shit together.

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