Im browsing thru some posts last night and came across this one. This post was full of Men bashing by a bunch of women pissed off because they're no longer collecting child support. The men (from the woman) prospective are peices of shit. Most of the women at least say that most men had paid for quite many yrs. But when asked about why the men stopped paying somehow, all the women had the same response. All the Men quit because their lazy. How convienient! So I Poked the bear a little and asked if any of them had jobs. Some of them did (usually only part time) some of them went off on a self righteous rant about how good they are and how they deserve the world..blah blah. What I found was that hardly any of the women really had jobs but a ton of excuses and self righteous bullshit to say. Now when a man pokes a hornets nest like this it's funny! I had a great time! Along with child support probably 90% of these women had the whole section 8, foodstamps and in general they had all the asistance from the government they could get.
I Have gone thru this with a ex of mine and its a long story but in the end I got the shitty end of the deal.
These women, this is how this works and I'm gonna shed some light on it now.
This is the typicall situation of a women that loves to collect and mooch. A Woman get's with a dude, has unproteced sex telling him to use the pullout method, she uses this a lot because it makes her feel better that shes taking some sort of responsibility in the action. And Some just dont say anything and continue with sex. She eventually gets pregnant, and well, she typically has a bunch of family members or friends telling her to get the dude for child support even if their together because not only will she receive child support, but she will get section 8 and only have to pay around 11-30 bucks a month in rent and on top of all that, get around a grand in foodstamps. It's right about now she is rubbing her belly with $$ signs in her eyes.
There's a lot of dudes out there that would ask her to get a abortion because they already see where this is going with her. And are willing to pay for it. But this doesnt happen because after women are pregnant, the men have no say whether the Women get one or not. They just have to hope and pray it happens. Which usually it doesnt because of said $$ signs. Eventually the 2 will break up and she will take him for more money in the courts out of spite. Once the babys born she applys and gets all the assistance she wants. 11 bucks a mo in rent, around $1000.00 bucks in foodstamps, WIC and child support.
It's around now that she starts using the child as a weapon towards the dad. She also starts giving up on her dreams of ever going to college and all ambition completely goes out the window. Not because she cant, because she will still party all the time and treat her kid like shit 24/7 meaning she can and will find a baby sitter for partying but not for school. But because she can sit on her ass all the time, watch the oxygen channel, leech off the government and her baby's daddy and generally not have to lift a damn finger.
She starts getting used to going out all the time and also gets used to having free money from the daddy working. She saves a little up and goes and typically buys a really nice used Cadillac Escalade.
This goes on while the Dad continues working, occasionaly getting a raise and she takes him right back to court anytime she catches wind of him recieving said raise and gets more money. Eventually the Dad either gets fired, layed off or gets tired of working his ass off so she can pay her Cadillac payment and go out. All the while he can hardly live at this point with the money he actually makes after the child support garnishment is taken out of his check.
Then this is where it gets interesting. The Women get mad because they cant make their Escalade payment and end up losing the caddy feeling that something they rightfully earned has been stripped away from them. They start man bashing as if its the man's fault that they justified it in their mind that it was ok to let their college dreams and careers go out the window and sit on their ass for yrs because it was easier.
Next thing you know, its the mans fault that they didnt go to college, lost their dreams and didnt get a job. And this my friends is how all the man bashing starts. This makes complete sense huh?
